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Green Lights Ahead: Spotting the Keepers in the Crowd
Faraz Ali
March 19, 2024
Dating can feel like navigating a maze blindfolded. You bump into a few egos, maybe even a heartbreak or two, all while searching for that elusive "good one." But fear not, love seekers! There are bright beacons in this emotional journey, and they're called green flags. These are the positive traits that signal a healthy and fulfilling connection.
Here are some signs that scream "green light" and deserve a big thumbs up:
You recommend them a book or movie, and they take the time to check it out.
They encourage you to spend time/money on your hobby.
They make excuses on your behalf for your shortcomings.
They don’t push their preferences on you and pressure you to maintain them.
They remember small details from your conversations.
They stand up for you/supporting you when you’re not there.
They forgive you when you make a mistake or speak in anger, instead of holding a grudge or trying to punish you.
When you're on a road trip, they feed you fries and help you drink your soda or whatever.
They take criticism from you seriously without immediately trying to turn it back on you.
When you never have to question their whereabouts, you get that "safe" feeling.
They respect your food issues, whether preferences, allergies, etc.
They ask about boundaries/traumas and don't judge you for them, but instead respect them.
They will attend family events/get to know your family, regardless of how difficult it might be.
When some inconvenience happens, they’re more concerned about you than the impact on them.
They don't make fun of you for not knowing things.
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